sorry, but that is EXACTLY the way it has been phrased in my mind "He didn't have the balls to break up with her".
Me too!
Michelle, as much as it pains me, I think his "true" feelings, right now, are closer to what he was saying in the IM converstion you had before the "interesting" evening. I think that Sunday night he was being driven more to say what you wanted to hear, so that he could get what he wanted. True cake-eating. Even if he meant it at the time, when faced with the actual presence of OW, we know what he did then. So, at best he is confused, and lying to both of you. The problem with any R talk you have with him now is that you can't believe a word that comes out of his mouth anyway!
