tree be carefull there. i know your very fed up right now but the fact your here means you want to rebuild the marrage. once domestic abuse gets filed thats going to be the final nail on a coffin for a lot of people. remember you have always tried to take the highground in all of this. the tapeing is if SHE tries to go to the cops and tries to paint a picture of YOU being the unfit parent.. I still think it would be better for both of you if a sepperation could happen. you guys are so close that any bad feelings are like a match in a powder room. if you and the kids were not around who could she fight with but herself, which sounds like she is the person she is most mad atanyway. she needs time to think were she cant get guilty or frustrated and just look up and see the K or you and have a easy blaim
