I wanted my husband to make changes...I wanted him to fight for me...but not in the way I needed him to.
that's just frustrates me. That could be or may have been my WAW now or in the past. Not a mind reader. I was extremely clueless as to what was going through her mind. Same now I suppose...
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What do you think about taking myself off our joint phone plan? We have sep. checking and savings accounts, but we each have access to the others. Should I take myself off the car insurance too? Too much?
what is your motivation for doing that? Is this just to show him something? Are you getting frustrated or growing impatient? When I have similar thoughts, I ask myself questions like...How does this help you? Is it even going to effect them? Will they even care?
In my case, WAW immediately opened different checking so I did the same. Then opened I opened one more convenient to my house. So, I have excessive accounts...we don't have access, etc...this also when she was angry, hateful, etc. Phone split during this time also. She sold then bought a different car and got new insurance policy. So, I wouldn't be on that policy. In my state, I cannot take my WAW off my car insurance w/o canceling or D paper final, and I have no intention of that...I asked my agent. However, once again, this would help me zero. Separated and on the vehicle that only I drive...I just cannot see how that helps me. She would never even know I did it...
