ISH...your welcome...I do remember those days...him telling me he wanted to marry OW, him telling me they ended things but he still didn't want to come home, he still didn't love me and didn't think he ever would again...it was heart breaking to say the least...you know that all too well...but the main thing to remember is YOU will be okay and YOU and your children will be happy...no matter what H decides to do...just as love is a choice so is happiness...before my H returned I decided I was going to be happy...by myself...if I found someone else or H returned I would still be happy first for me...then with my mate...When H returned I could look him in the eye and tell him that I didn't NEED him anymore...but I did WANT to be with him...
Since we have gotten back together I have maintained my GAL...I go to the gym for myself...I tan for myself...I go out to a movie here and there with friends for myself...before everything in my life revolved around H and then the kids...I won't do that again...I really feel that made me more vulnerable and less able to cope with things when they turned bad...today I am much stronger...more sensitive...more in touch with who I am then I have ever been...so focus on you and the kids and only good things will come of that!
