Aud, No, I don't know where she goes on her sleeping elsewhere nights. I don't think a confrontation would do me any good at this time. Hopefully, it's just a change of venue for her with a friend, and nothing more.
I'll keep trying to solve the problems I think I have influence over, keep myself involved in enjoyable activities, and negotiate with her when she proposes a solution that I consider unreasonable.
I'm a bit embarrassed when visitors discover, that we sleep in separate bedrooms (including my parents). I tend to be self-conscious as a couple in front of relatives or friends at this time. It's my issue to work on--letting others see that I have an imperfect M, and imperfect W.
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
