joie - tell me about "husband has minimal contact with OW"
My spouse lives with the fantasy that they can be "friends"...Disneyland would be cheaper and less destructive for fantasy...

How do you cope and under what situations is the contact?

or if Husband minds a "highjack" you can come visit me in piecing. Haven't touched my thread in a while....

I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it.
Stubby