Kim, Been meaning to see you over here in piecing. I just have not made the move over here yet but will.
About the advice on the sex ... I would suggest not talking about the daily stuff at night. Perhaps at dinner instead? I can't imagine talking about A stuff, then going to bed and being in the mood to ML.
I had to face that monster, too. I forced myself to NOT think about OW or to compare myself to her. I cleared my head. But sometimes it's still there. But I know if she was that much better than me (and not just in the sex dept.) that H may not still be with me so it's really becoming a non-issue...
