My H has said many times how he misses me & wants to come home & then never does. My main concern is my baby, she is only 6 months old. After visiting w/ the lawyer, he doesn't want me to file. He thinks it would devistate me even more than I already am. I am out of town right now & Icalled to chat with my H (he's at work) & he was talking A LOT about raising our baby together. He goes through phases where he wants to & then he wont call FOREVER!! The last time he did that, when he did call I just pretneded like we had chatted yesterday. No big deal. Before I left town, I told H if he wanted to move back with me & go no place in between that was ok with me. Last night when he was talking about raising our baby, I told him the ball was in his court, that I couldn't make him come back. We will see!