Just wanted to post a follow up. I gave my WW until yesterday to give up her man. But she just can't do it. She won't promise me that she won't talk to him ever again. So, I can never feel safe, rebuild trust, feel like I am married to her fully. So, I have no other choice here.
Planning on filing this week. Don't want to do it at all. I have worked for so long to save the marriage and our family, but she has no interest. And I can't let her walk all over me any more.
Good luck to all of you. I will still hang around. Who knows, maybe there will be a last minute miracle.
