Thanks...Ok maybe some body can give me a bit of adivice on something that has been going on with H and I having sex. It seems to me that H is trying to one up on what the OM was able to do, and I have no idea how to deal with this? Any suggestions. It's like H is trying so hard and nothing is working, because of the fact that he is trying as hard as he is. It's like there is pressure to perform now, I know that its something that he needs to deal with but if could help him through it in anyway, we can't just have fun with it any more. I know that I was that way for a little bit but I got over it, in no time. And then how do I try to incorprate something new with out H thinking that I got this from OM or that it was done with OM?
As for the talking killing the mood, most of the daily stuff does come up before that so what we talk about at night are how we are feeling and that is when most of the questions come out about the A.
Ok I am work so should have been done with this already but there is something that just happened that I am so excited about. You know the new friend that I was talking about, her name by the way is Kathie, she just asked me to be her Maid of Honor in her wedding in September. She had asked me about a week ago to help her find a place for the reception and help her find a dress and that, becuase she is orginally from Indiana, and not familiar with the area and what it has to offer for that kind of stuff. This is the first wedding that I have been in that I am not realted to the person getting married.
