OK, this is weird. Your sitch seems almost like a carbon of mine. Do you have young children also?? This woman is older than we are (7 or 8 years) and is nothing like he has EVER been attracted to!! Trust me, I learned to NEVER underestimate this OW!! She has pulled most everything she can do to end my M. I just want my H back!!! I want him to have his own self confidence back; to be the happy person he used to be. He used to have a cute bounce in his step & now he just looks miserable! I just want him to be happy. Even if it isn't w/ me, I can see he isn't happy w/ OW. This is a choice he is making though.
