It is kinda funny you say that. I just hung up with my Mother-In-Law & she said the same exact thing! We have tried him living w/them & it didn't work. He is supposed to call today & I will let him know that it is an option, should he (FINALLY) decide to leave OW. I went to see a D attorney & he refused to file for me. He said it would emotionally devistate both of us. He didn't rule it out, just asked me to wait a bit. You are right about him being weak, he made that comment on Mother's Day - he asked how he ever became so weak; he has always been a strong person. This is something he seems to be struggling with. I try & give positive comments, when appropriate, but it seems like it is not enough. Any advice you have is very helpful. Thanks a million!!!