It sounds like you & I have been dealing w/ the same woman!! He tried to end the A when our baby was born & cut all contact w/ her. In her letters to him she complains how he "isn't even bothering to make time for her, not even calling" & then cuts me to shreds & makes herself look like a champ!! I was confused about myself & questiong if I was a good person, I can't imagine how he felt!! My H actually left her in March & moved to his parents (we agreed that was best before he moved back to me) and not even two days after he moved back, she started calling!! It was amazing! She has a very dominating personality & has taken all his strenght away. His Dad tried to intercept the calls for as long as he could, but he works too. I have filed a lawsuit against OW & she finally responded & BLAMED my H for the A!!!! I asked him if he knew about her response & he didn't. I showed him & he seemed shocked. I then questioned her love for him. Wrong thing to do?? Probibly. But if she claims to love him so much & wants to protect him from bad (me) then why blame him & attack his charachter in court?? He said they hadn't talked about it, but he was going to & just see what she says. She also claims "as a fact" that I have filed for D, which I haven't. Ofcourse, she says all these things & doesn't talk to him about it. This case is not good for either & he isn't too fond of it going to court because they both work for the Sheriff's Dept. I am trying my hardest to work on me & my baby has been the only light I seem to have. She is truly an amazing child! For someone so tiny, she is a lifesaver!! It is very helpful to hear that other people are going through the same thing, that I am not crazy! Our frinds & family just don't understand why it is so hard for him to choose & that I should give up since he can't or won't. I am going away for a week, hoepfully this will help to seperate us on some level, until he can pull his head out of you know where!!! Thanks for your help!!
