I don't think he'd ever know, for one. This is just between us girls. And if I just keep it to the one comment and he were to find out, I don't think it would matter. I think he'd understand and it would be a 180 for me to just say one thing to her, not tell him and leave it at that.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09