Quote: I DO NOT want a D, but my patients is running out! I have never been very patient but this is eating away at me!!!
think of it this way..you do not want a d right?? so if you do not want a d..then getting a d will not stop you from feeling the way you do...if it is you that is the one heading down the d road as a means to shake him up..think carefully before you take that legal action.
other than moving away (I hope it would be for more reasons than simply to keep ow away from dd) what would you be doing with your life if h weren't a part of it (other than as father to dd, cause that isn't going to change). how will your life be different if you do d...what will yoube doind...how will you live...and just start living that way.
h has some decisions to make..it seems that he is full aware that what he's doing right now is not productive...but it also seems that he is fully aware that he CAN continue to do so and you'll be there...how can you show him (lovingly detach) that you wont be without running right for the divorce?
