Quote: I will work on myself & family & let him figure it all out himself.
truly that is the best thing you can do for him..and yourself.
Quote: I know he wasn't at school because the academy is two blocks away from where I work & I have to drive by it each day.
aaahhh, but you don't have to look to see if his car is there...
Quote: now we can't count on ANYTHING from him! It is just frustrating!
I know it's difficult but learn NOT to depend on him for anything...learn to do as much as you can on your own...let him fill in the gaps when he can but make it so you are independant. (fyi, I was left to care for two kiddos under 3...yes h did come to visit a few times a week but the bulk of the work was left to lil ole me)
