Hey Fish, don't let the journey end here. Only you know when the time to divorce is right for you, but you have to keep trying to right your relationship with your daughter's Mom. I recommend you visit whileweheal.org, it's all about protecting your children and putting them first in the face of conflict. If you're serious that you can make this work for your daughter then you have to make sure to put her first and not your ego, not your anger towards your wife, no matter how justified you feel that anger is. Again, this isn't about you right now, it's about your daughter.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.