I think it would keep it neutral. Like you said, it's something that I'd say to any other member, so it's not a negative. For my own sanity, I would need to take the opportunity to let her know that I work there in case she runs into H and thinks it's a good place to start things up. Of course, I know that she might not even feel this way, but I know that she and her husband are not together anymore so I'm worried that she might try to strike up a friendship with him again.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09