I have tried to get her to talk to me, but she has no interest. She feels like it is a time in her life she needs to leave in the past. I can't say that I blame her. I am trying to be patient. The bonding issue is a big deal for us, he started planning her future 3 years before she was even conceived. He is (or was) a VERY family oriented man! We waited so long to have her so he wouldn't miss anything about the process (he was in the Army). He is having a real hard time with the fact he has missed so much. He has told me more than once that he doesn't feel like she is his because he has missed so much of her little life! This woman is just awful! I found out this weekend that she is a very dominating person. H has expressed interest in leaving her & making us work, but he just can't explain why he can't leave her house. I am trying to be patient, but I am getting tired of this sitch!!!
