[quote=SueS The only thing is with some OW's, I think it's harder to not see them as more a part of the problem. Yes, we all had issues in our M's. If we didn't, our S's may not have been so open to an A. It's just that with some of the OW's, they knew us too. They met us, they met our children, yet the chose to continue and grow the A. I try to put her out of my mind. I truly do. [/quote]

Sue, I had that in my case also and just don't understand it. I do think the OW's in our case are such uncaring jerks, and can't believe the H's won't realize this eventually and why would you want to be with someone like that??? I don't get it!!! \:\( Karen


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D18, S24