Wow! I just grumpyeby's response on Michelles thread: "Don't do it. Don't give him an opening, if he is stressing and you contact him, there is his release. Wait for him to contact you. Thats just my 2 cents. As you well know, even an innocent attempt at contact can sometimes turn into a huge amount of drama if H needs to blow off some emotional steam about the other areas of his life.
Its his party, let him wear his hat by himself. A good dose of reality is just what he needs. Have a thin mint and wait."
This is exactly what I've been doing the last couple weeks. W and I have business stuff to take care of, benefits, taxes, etc. She's been using these times to create drama and blow off steam. The business stuff is done, time to detach.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
