doesn't sound like you did too much damage...you were frustrated becuase the baby was crying and were looking forward to a little relief via help from him...you explained that and h assured you that you have not moved back too much...cut yourself some slack...and keep in mind for next time...it may be best when you are feeling like lashing out at him to not answer the phone...it's ok to let the machine pick it up and then you can return the call when you are in a better frame of mind...or at least can pretend to be.
