You know I love you guys and we have all been there for each other during the worst of times. I truly wish everyone on the board happiness.
For me the journey ends here. I have made the decision that I no longer wish to work on my marriage and I am getting divorced. Unfortunately, after 6+ months of very hard work, I have come the the realization that my wife is no longer for me. I know that I have flip-flopped many times, but you reach a point where there is no turning back.
My W asked me to come home, told my child that "Daddy was home for life," and then she gave me the boot after 2 weeks. During our 1st 2 weeks back together, she treated me great for a couple of days and then the sh*t started up again. Came home past midnight 3 nights in a row, headed down to FLA for a "business" trip, etc, etc.
Who needs the bullsh*t?
If you reach the tipping point like I did, move on. There are a lot of really nice people in the world who will accept "you" for "you." 50% of the children today will be raised by divorced parents, you can make it work.
