Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Thanks DMB. I'm still not sure I'm going the filing route right now as I'm pretty sure once I expose to the kids and she moves out the reality will hit her pretty quickly and she might possibly come back, but at this point I don't really care.

That's the funny thing. Prior to this I don't think I was mentally at the place I needed to be, but my detaching and really thinking about how she's been and what she's doing has allowed me to get some of my self respect back and I'm not going to take it anymore.

At this point, if she does wake up and want to try to make the marriage work there will be a list of conditions that are non-negotiable. If she can't or won't meet those conditions, then maybe it'll be time to file for D.

I just know I'm going to do everything in my power to protect myself and my kids from her destructive behavior. It contuinally amazes me how addicted they are and nothing matters but the next fix.

She's at work now so I'm sure the OM sent her an email letting her know they were busted. Boy won't it be fun at home tonight!

Thanks for the support DMB. I'm with you also. There's just so much disrespect one person can take.