This sounds like my situation too. I have been living in a apartment out of my house at her request for 3 months...I have not approached her about us at all for about 2 months and she still has never brought it up...I have been so tempted to ask her to read books on marriage or to request a sit down and just listen to how she feels...but I am hanging in there...I have no idea where she stands right now...she does not initiate any talk at all about us and where we are heading...She only calls me concerning taking care of the kids ....I really am having a hard time not brining up a relationship talk because after reading several books I want to share all this information with her and start working on a better relationship...I have changed my whole perspective on marriage and want to start being happy with her as soon as possible...but everything I read has advised against it....Seems like she may never initate anything...She just acts like everything is good for her right now...is this a smoke screen??? It feels like she is not even thinking about us?? please respond with some support so I can hang in there. Would really like some advice from other WAW's on what they think would work....
