Inevitable R talk planned for tonight. I can't really get out of it. S5 has been having some difficulties with the split. H and I have talked briefly (more in depth tonight) about what are relationship needs to be like for our kids. He wants to be able to remain friends and still do occasional things as a family to show the kids that we are still a family no matter what and that we will always love them. H thinks it is a little too soon to start family outings like that because it may confuse the kids. He doesn't want them to start thinking that we might get back together. I'm not sure how to handle this one. It is a talk we HAVE to have though, so we can know how to proceed with the kids. Any advice on this?
