I think it also might be a good idea to post to the piecing board when he arrives home or at least read some of the posts over there. When will he move back?
You mentioned before that he was going to apply for another contract in a new city. Is that city any closer to your hometown?
One thing that I've noticed is that some people stop their GAL and Dbing when the S moves back. Please don't stop because these are the things that helped him see a new you in the first place.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*