Enjoying my life!!!

[kissak]

Thanks Guys...and IMP, I am not letting him suck me in....Im not spinning or anything.

I almost agree though that he is fishing for an invitation home. All I am doing is listening to him talk. I have told him that if I have a question, I will ask, but really I dont have any that I want answers to.

I do know he has a long way to go. The anger he is talking about really isnt over a specific thing, it is just everything. Like when we would have the silliest arguments over something and I would walk away and stay mad for days, he would "seem" to be over it in a minute and act like nothing was wrong...it is all of those times rolled into one. He never ever let his anger out and now it has all come to a head. That was one thing about him. He NEVER got mad or angry at me....well, actually he did, he just never let it show.

His therapy is going good and he has told me alot about some things from his past that may have made him flip out. I know he still has a long way to go. Still lots of work. AND I WILL NOT invite him back home....He has to do the work and boy am I making him work for it!

But talking is good. Im not being sucked back in, but I am listening and paying attention to what he is doing. I know the OW and him arent together anymore. This time it seemed to end before he started sniffing around me again. THat is different than everytime before.

IMP and swl...im not letting him suck me back in. I know he still has a long way to go. He is on a high dose of anxiety meds and is seeing his therapist every week. Im curious to what they may talk about tonight.

Im good though. Need a vacation from my vacation!!

I was just interested in you guys thoughts on why he wants me to ask questions. I really think though it is that he wants me to ask about the OW and him coming home. That is all Ican come up with .....but I will not ask him.