You still need to talk and I think your a little scared. You will feel much better if you get it out in the open. Be calm cool and collected and state the boundries you need for you. What he does is up to him. Like OT said you have your room. It still sounds hopeful though and the contact is getting less but, it's still there and needs to be addressed.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
