Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Well, don't I feel like a fool? Did and am going to do some pretty non-DB kinds of things the next week, but I've had enough.

Snooped WW's cell phone last night and discovered she was trying to arrange a meet with OM last Saturday, but he didn't show up (he lives ~250 miles from us) because his wife is going to a lawyer this week and he "didn't want to add fuel to the fire". Guess I know now why WW's mood has been better the last couple weeks. OMW told OM a couple weeks ago that she'd had enough and was going to D his sorry butt, so I'm sure he got in touch with WW so he could use her some more. But if she's so stupid to fall for it, have at it.

So now it's time for me to tell our kids what's going on and why I'm going to ask their mom to move out. Got to get all my stuff together this week before telling them this weekend. I know there are many people here who don't agree with this, but in my opinion, my kids deserve to know the truth about what is going on in their lives and there is no way I'd let the serial cheatin, alcoholic, abusive OM have a part in my kids lives without them knowing the truth.