Mishka & Sg, Thanks for your support and encouragement as usual, I know that is why I love this board so much.
I want to let you know that I have been doing much better these last two days. Sometimes I just have "one of those days", and saturday happened to be "one". Glad I had it though, as now I again feel much stronger.
Sunday night, I read most of Happy Agains threads and it is giving me back some hope. I am planning on reading them all, because it helps me so much when I learn even more about the MLCer.
I am pleasently surprised to hear you say that you think I have this DBing thing down. I do believe that I understand the concepts, but they are not always easy to put into play.
I have definetly pulled myself up again by the bootstraps and have felt much better since. I think it was just getting to me, that I have been the one this last month to start laying down the law. I feel good about it sometimes and then other times I freak out that I am doing the wrong thing and pushing him away more. Either way, I know that I am not in the wrong for expecting respect from my H and I will guide him to show it until he does it on his own.
I am on CD #3 so far on the KLA-it is reinforcing, and I will see if I have the time to jump onto the womens network ( I am not sure I know what that is, I will look for it here ).
