You guys are right, it happens to me as well. I always pull myself out of it, but it does happen.

You keep thinking "I'm doing all this work, now where's the reward?" What we often fail to realize is that this is going to take far longer than we expect.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!