Talk is Cheap..............

[Lissie]

But you gotta let it go. Putting it in his face doesn't help. If I were you I would not go online and read the banking. Doesn't help.

Thanks Barbie, you are right. I usually do let him go alot. To the point of not even thinking about him at all.

I think the fact that I was having a shitty week, and then the bill brought back the memories of him being awful

Ick I was over it, by the time i posted tho (sigh)


I don't check his account at all I can't. Even if i could i woudn't.

We have one joint account, that is used for emergencies. I don't know why he was using that account for purchases. My money was not in the account

But when i log on to my bank online, that automatically comes up. Trust me I don't look for his crap.

But yes, I need to let go of it even more.

Thank you