Lissie--I can so relate to what you experienced. I still receive joint information under both our names and that is how I found he has taken the OW away on weekends to places we stayed esp for the weekend after T-Day where we took the kids for many years. They eat at all my favorite restaurants because I can no longer afford to eat there. He buys her gift certificates from the same place I used to get my massages and days of beauty.
This treachery is what truly broke my heart the worst. Knowing the STBX could not even have an original thought his head to make their own new memories--he has to repeat our experiences. Wonder if OW knows?
Ic they all do the same thing. I hear from my kids that Susan's backyard has the same exact stuff that my backyard has.
Susan and I even have the same remote. The one he just got me for my bday.
It is a bit creepy. Hope your pain eases every day lovey.
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