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Re: Worried I found DB too late #2 cw68 #1404743 03/31/08 12:42 PM
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minkerman Member M Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 593	cw, I wouldn't say a thing to her that you wouldn't say to any other member. When considering any action, always ask: "Would my husband say that what I am about to do is going to bring us closer together, keep things neutral, or potentially drive us further apart?" Notice the italics? It's all about how HE would perceive it. This is what my DB coach always tells me to keep front-of-mind. Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!

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Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/10/08 12:40 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/10/08 05:00 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Grace_O	03/10/08 03:50 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/10/08 04:06 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Grace_O	03/10/08 04:27 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/12/08 05:07 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/12/08 05:37 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Grace_O	03/13/08 01:03 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/13/08 01:24 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Grace_O	03/13/08 03:10 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/13/08 03:15 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Grace_O	03/13/08 03:19 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/14/08 04:38 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	03/14/08 05:27 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	JenInVen	03/14/08 05:31 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/14/08 05:43 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/14/08 03:34 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/14/08 06:19 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/14/08 07:15 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/14/08 07:17 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/14/08 07:27 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/14/08 07:29 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	03/14/08 07:52 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/14/08 07:58 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/15/08 05:15 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/15/08 05:38 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/15/08 05:58 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	JenInVen	03/16/08 03:00 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/17/08 07:57 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/17/08 07:24 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/17/08 10:42 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Broken Tree	03/18/08 01:34 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/18/08 04:49 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/18/08 05:02 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/19/08 05:28 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/19/08 07:05 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	03/19/08 07:27 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/19/08 10:42 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/19/08 10:42 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/20/08 03:59 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	03/20/08 02:42 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/20/08 03:34 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	03/20/08 05:18 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/20/08 05:27 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/20/08 06:37 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/24/08 04:43 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/24/08 05:06 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/24/08 05:21 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/24/08 07:47 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/24/08 08:23 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/24/08 09:54 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/24/08 09:58 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/25/08 04:59 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Grace_O	03/25/08 06:25 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/25/08 06:44 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/25/08 03:31 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/25/08 03:53 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/26/08 05:00 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/27/08 01:55 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/27/08 03:56 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	03/27/08 02:11 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/27/08 04:13 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/28/08 05:12 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	03/28/08 05:44 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/28/08 05:50 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	03/28/08 12:44 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/28/08 04:18 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/28/08 04:56 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	03/28/08 05:12 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/28/08 05:32 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/28/08 07:16 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/28/08 09:18 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/31/08 03:34 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	MichelleLT	03/31/08 03:51 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Virtually_Handsome	03/31/08 04:15 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	03/31/08 04:58 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/31/08 05:34 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/31/08 05:57 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	03/31/08 12:42 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	03/31/08 01:20 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/31/08 03:02 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	03/31/08 04:15 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/31/08 04:39 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	03/31/08 05:02 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/01/08 03:29 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Sara	04/01/08 03:36 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/01/08 03:41 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	minkerman	04/01/08 03:43 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	JenInVen	04/01/08 03:49 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/01/08 03:38 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Sara	04/01/08 04:21 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Sara	04/01/08 04:26 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/01/08 04:44 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	JenInVen	04/01/08 05:46 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/01/08 06:01 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/01/08 07:23 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/02/08 03:35 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Sara	04/02/08 04:19 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/02/08 04:21 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Sara	04/02/08 04:26 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Dr LOve	04/02/08 11:50 AM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	04/02/08 04:13 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/02/08 04:20 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/02/08 05:34 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	JenInVen	04/02/08 06:13 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	Sara	04/02/08 06:42 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	newnamenewlife	04/02/08 08:06 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	houndfan	04/02/08 09:02 PM
Re: Worried I found DB too late #2	cw68	04/02/08 09:28 PM

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