Husband, I agree totally 100% with Saffie. Remember every sitch is different. It may seem like you have not made any progress in yours, but I think you have. You and your W are becoming friends, that's so important in any R. She's warming up. And, you know you are waiting for her to get a job. That day is coming closer, too. I truly believe that in your sitch if you had forced things or tried to rush them at all, that everything would have backfired. The ship is no longer sinking so don't you dare jump off of it now!
