Sandi
I found out the hard way. My c said it was extremely stupid to contact her friend, and yes, she is still mad at me. I ordered the book (Only found out about it when I found this website) but it has not arrived yet.
The 180's I did: (I hope I understand the concept)Her big complaint was that I am fat and sit in front of the computer all day. So I lost 50 pounds and almost never use the home computer any more. She complained that I never got out to do fun stuff: So I went on a skydiving course with het. (And got hooked).
My most recent 180: She said she cannot talk to my about OR because I throw temper fits. I never had a problem with rage before the bomb, and afterwards my rage was completely out of controll. I then read a book that explained that I had post traumatic stress syndrome, and the rage fits was a normal manifestation. I started taking an antidepressant, and as predicted in the literature the fits disappeared.

I really cannot wait to start reading the book...


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