Addie, this is HUGE and I'm really not sure what advice to give (a little learning is a dangerous thing:))
Let's see what he said: he doesn't see a future with OW. He noticed and appreciated your patience with him. He is missing his family. He hugged and kissed you (WOW!). He wants to take things slow.
ok, I would do just that. Take things slow(ly). Don't expect much. Continue whatever you have been doing, it absolutely works. Don't ask/initiate any OW talk (there will be plenty of time to ask all the questions ), as if she never was in the picture. Do more things together as a family. Be upbeat, confident, fun.
I'm late for work, will write more when I get back.
(((((((Addie))))))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08