Oooh, forgot to mention something that happened yesterday... the woman that my H had an EA with was our dental hygienist, I'll call her LC. I work at our health club, which is part of a small chain in this area. LC and her family belonged to a sister club in the town next to us. I went into work late Saturday morning and about an hour into my shift I checked the recent attendance log as I usually do (I like to know if there are any members I know in the club so I can keep on top of things they might ask for) and I see that SHE checked in about the time that I got to work! Turns out that she's now a member at our club. I didn't see her leave.

So I'm a bit flipped out. I know my H is going to run into her sometime at the club. Heck, I know I'm going to run into her sometime at the club! Since I work there, I have to play it totally cool but I've decided that if I ever check her in I'm going to say the usual, "Welcome, LC, have a good workout" but then add in a very friendly voice, "Oh, I know you, you were my H's dental hygienist!" Non-threatening, but at the same time it lets her know that I know who she is AND that I work there.

Pre-DBing, I would have called my H and told him something snarky but instead I'm just letting this news roll off my back and I'm not mentioning it to him.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.