Well its been a lovely weekend here in Drama central. Hung out with H most of it. We were together Friday night as D had baseball practice and S had a birthday party at the batting cages right by the baseball park. We talked and I brought him the information on Trich that I printed from the CDC website where it tells about the symptoms and stuff. As much as it hurts me, I know he doesnt want to believe she cheated on him, but he is also logical enough to know that its the truth. He went to see if he could make her confess (yeah right!) and I guess it didn't work out, but he called me and we ended up talking on the phone all night long (from midnight until almost 4:30am) and he decided that he needed to honest with me about them. I heard things I really didn't want to know, but in a sick way it was good because he seemed like he wanted to clean the slate.
Saturday we were at D game at 9am, I was so tired. He went home to sleep and go to work and we had a bunch of errands to run. We then had to go to S game at 5pm, nothing like spacing them farther apart! and we were together at that one. H told me OW was still denying being with anyone else and had been in tears over it. Game lasted until 8:00 and S and D went home with MIL (where H lives now) and he went to torment OW into telling him who she cheated on him with. S wanted to come home and H ended up bringing him. I offered to meet him 1/2 way and he insisted on coming here himself. We hung out until 12:30 and he went home to go to bed. He knows she is a cheat, but having a hard time with it.
H and I spent today together, kids were at our nephews birthday party and neither of us wanted to go, there is too much family drama there. We had a nice day, but its sad to see him upset over someone else.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option