No one to turn to- 2

[addie]

Something MAJOR happened tonight.

H called me yesterday and said he'd like to come by today to talk to me. He came in the late afternoon. He asked if I wanted to go for a walk with him to talk.

He told me that he has to move out of the place where he's staying and asked if he could come and stay with us. I asked him for clarification on his intentions. He made no promises and said that he still has many things to work through. He said he's not proud of the things he has done. I asked where things stand with OW and he said he doesn't see a future with her. I asked if he planned on continuing to see her and he said no that he couldn't do that (I'm not sure that I believe this).
He told me he wanted to be honest with me that he can't guarantee anything right now and that we would take things very slow. He doesn't want us to have sex until he's sure of his feelings because he doesn't want to hurt me.
My first instinct was to say no to this until I knew for certain OW was out of the picture and that he wanted to fully commit. But then I told him that I appreciated his honesty and that he could come back home and we would take things very slowly. He said he doesn't want the fighting that went on before we separated. I told him that I don't want that either and since I know where things stand, I have fewer expectations of him at this time. He said he missed many things about our family, that I have been very patient with him, and that he hopes we can continue to communicate as we have recently.
He gave me a very tight hug and a kiss on the cheek.

I hope I haven't accepted him back too soon but then again he hasn't really promised me anything. I guess I have to keep my expectations low and continue to DB.

Any thoughts on how I should proceed???