Well W comes home later, seems happy now. She's making dinner and dancing around listening to her phone/mp3 player. She pauses a moment and thanks me for buying it for her for christmas. Ok, fine.
Couple hours later, she's had a small glass of wine. Tells D12 to clean up her room. D12 is suddenly 'not feeling well'. W is pushy, bossy, whatever. W comes and tells me that D12 hasn't read her book for book report and OMG, it's due in 3 days!
Then she tells me that D12 hasn't unpacked her clothes from the friday night campout, and she hasn't washed her gym clothes so they've been sitting in her room all week. I guess that I didn't check up on all these things the past week. Probably means I'll be a bad 'single dad' when she really moves out Hey, it's spring break can't the kid have a break?
I am starting to wonder if D12 being 'sick' has anything to do with W interacting with her. She was GREAT all week while W wasn't around.
Well, now W is in her room talking to someone on the phone. When I went in to ask her about D12, and was there any other school related stuff I should have known about she was pissy and said 'how should I know?' Guess she should go hang out with those 'happy people'.
Yeah, I have an attitude. I'm so tired of being the one to blame for everything. Right now I'm not DOING anything. I don't give her crap, I am pretty mellow, no problems. No negativity, and actually I'm trying to be more 'up' when I talk to her.