I knew it was coming around the bend! Big step forward as H and I were intimate tonight for the first time since early January. Admittedly, it was weird for him to then go "home" to the apartment, but I'm a happy camper right now. It was HIS idea, too.
We spent the day together, which in ways I wish I would have just stayed away for the dim factor, but it turned out to be a very nice day. We were all gelling as a family and it was one of the most comfortable days in a looooong time. Obviously he was feeling it too, because of his initiation of sex. No declarations of love from either of us or anything, just nice.
On another note, I asked him if he had decided to go to the concert with me or not and he said that he hadn't yet heard back from our friend in SoCal whom he was going to visit. I told him that I was going to go with my friend because it had been a week already. When I said this, it wasn't in a threatening tone or anything, just told him I had to let her know so we could work out babysitting.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09