I had a great weekend with the kids. We were out a friends houses a lot. Last night we had a great part a friends for Earth Hour...we ha all the lights out and candles. It was a lot fun and D really enjoyed herself.
Tomorrow I'm going to phone a mediator that a friend reccommended. I'm hoping it will be the cheaper and more amicable way to solve this dispute. I really don't want to go to court if we don't have to. Plus I figure the mediator could help us resolve some of the other outstanding issues too.

I founf out that quite a few of our friends have met OW. This has been so hurtful, it's killing me actually...but I'm just trying to keep it in perspective. I can't change it so I have to figure out a way to deal with it.

I'm trying to step out of the 'wrongness' of it all. It is wrong, no doubt. But it's consuming and preventing me from moving forward. I'm building my conviction that I will not let this destroy me...or turn me into something I'm not.

Well off to bed...it's been a busy weekend!
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out