Things have been going really good lately. I am for the most part lovingly detached from my H. We get along great lately. Have even gone on walks during our son's ball practice and chatted alot. He talks about his therapy sessions some.
From what I can gather, him and the OW are only "good friends". He doesnt spend time with her like he use too. He is doing his own laundry and cooking for himself. He is staying at his own place. These are just things I have seen for myself. He calls me to talk. He texts me to say hi. Things seem good. Although I have not asked him any questions about his R with the OW.
One thing I need advice on is this...he has asked me several times in our discussions if I have any questions for him.
I have no idea what questions he seems to want me to ask. All my questions would be in regards to the OW or is he wanting to come home yet again. Or they are questions that I really dont want answers to. I have a problem with this only because he commented on that "if" we were to ever get back together "communication" was our problem and if we couldnt do that it would never work. I really dont have any questions other than "is it over with the OW for good" or "are you seriously wanting to come home". But I dont feel like I can ask these questions.
What on earth could he be wanting me to ask? He even asked or made the statement "you really want me to come home dont u" simply because I gave him a hug.
I dont know what I am supposed to do in regards to asking him questions. I enjoy talking to him and "listening", but I feel communication would be fine, but I am sooo tired of talking about our "problems" I have no idea what to talk about.
He is still seeing his shrink once a week. THe C said he has a lot of anger towards me that he NEVER allowed to come out during our marriage. He was never one to get angry. He would blow it off. Well, it has all caught up with him now.
I see some changes in him that make me wonder. Good changes.
I guess what I want to know is what would you guys want to question him? What would you want to know? Im at a loss other than the OW.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
