I need help setting some goals for communicating and interacting with him. I'm running on autopilot and I don't know how long that can last.

We haven't told the kids yet but I know they are feeling it. My 9 yo had a total breakdown tonight for "no reason". Do I tell WH about it, or just hold my baby extra tight and deal with it alone? He is a good and involved dad but I fear what might happen if I talk about the kids at all. He's not rational right now. I need to protect them.

Last edited by stillbreathing; 03/31/08 12:25 AM.

Me BS 30
Him WH 32
Kids 9, 4 and 2
Together 12 years
DDAY#1 9/30/05 False reconciliation
DDAY #2 3/13/08 blindsided

Separating and heartbroken