W is angry today, she has to do a couple massages so she can pay her bills this week. She made sure she told me that in no uncertain terms.
I found a handwritten note she left on the counter. It was a 'prayer' to 'Archangel Metatron' asking for help for D12 who is 'labeled as disordered' according to her note.
I have no idea who 'Metatron' is supposed to be and Google searches showed more 'New Age' links to angels than anything else.
Now, D12 has some issues but mostly focus, which ADD medicines have really helped her with. She LOVES to play Halo 3 online, and she recently has gotten into World of Warcraft. She has a ton of fun and interacts with real people. Her best friend who only lives a few blocks from here is also into these games. She went camping with another friend on friday, and has the usual girls night sleepovers.
If you actually take the time to talk to her about her interests she'll talk and talk. If you talk to her about things she isn't interested in she clams up. Like, divorce for instance.
I talked to D17 about D12 the other day and her games and other stuff and D17 said that D12 was fine, this is just her escape from the crap in our house.
Today D12 and I went for a hike and it was a great time to let her tell me all bout her Warcraft characters and stuff that matters to her. She was HAPPY to go once we went.
I guess that maybe not breaking up the family isn't an option for W, instead she's going to call on her spiritual guides to do some magic. I guess that helping her husband get through his depression so he could become more productive faster is also not an option to increase the cash flow.
Maybe it's just me, but I don't think D12 is that in need of 'help'. What she needs is support, attention and love.
I'm not sure if I should say something to W about these 'prayers' and crystals she's written on her notes. Or just let it be and keep a good relationship with D12 going.