RC, talk to your H about a compromise with the talking after going to bed. Be thankful that he likes to talk (lol) b/c mine never would and that is what I personally needed. But, if it is about the problems of the day, bedtime is not exactly the best time to do it. Could kill any emotion for sex, I would think. My advice is just tell him what you said to us about how much sleep you must have to function the next day and ask him if he can meet you half way on this.

Good news about you joining new church and searching for new friends. Doesn't matter if they remember you or not, but if they did go to school with you, it's a good starting point for conversation.

Keep coming back to post and vent. We care about ya.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!