Cinders, I'm sorry I wasn't here for you when you needed someone. Are you in UK? I seem to get the impression that you are. Do you want to find a way to communicate outside of the BB? I know how hard it is wanting to speak to someone when most of the people you talk to here are from USA. I'm not quite sure how we do this now that email address have been removed from profiles but if you do want someone to talk to that is more accessible let me know and I'm sure we could find a way.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15