Cinders,

I am going through the exact same thing this weekend. My three children are with OW and ex on a trip. They are due back in about an hour. I cried all weekend. I am replaced in my family by a blonde bimbo whore. My kids like her also. They say she is nice and good to my ex. I hate her. I have never felt so much anger as this weekend.

What you did in regard to the seatbelt thing was fine. There is no DBing when safety is involved with our children. Do not feel bad, you said and did what was correct.

Cinders, I don't know why we are going through all this. It is so painful. I know though that God is watching out over us and he has something beautiful planned for us.

Keep the faith

Love Trusting.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11